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THE
BIBLE ZONE
Making
the Choice to Rejoice
by Joyce
Meyers
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Are you enjoying your life? There are many
Christians today that aren't. They are on their way to heaven, but they
are not enjoying the trip. I was that way myself many years ago, until I
made a full-time commitment to Christ. Since then, God has taught me a
number of principles from His Word, showing me what steals our joy and
what we can do to maintain it. What are these truths? Well, for
starters...
Be Honest with Yourself and Take Responsibility
for Your Actions.
Sometimes we are absent of joy because there is unconfesed
sin in our lives. If you are not enjoying your life, one of
the first things I would suggest is to get alone with God and ask Him to
show you if there are any sin issues you need to deal with.1
My life was absent of joy the first few years I was
married to Dave. One of the main reasons was I tried to
ignore the fact that I was a rebellious wife. Every time God would try
to deal with me about it, I'd make an excuse for my actions, and an
excuse is nothing more than a reason stuffed with a lie. I'd say,
"Well, you know Lord, I was abused as a child, so I have a hard
time submitting to male authority." Every time I made an excuse, I
forfeited my joy. One day, God finally got His point across to me. He
said, "Joyce, you can be pitiful or powerful, but you can't be
both. Yes, what happened to you was wrong, and it shouldn't have
happened, but I'm willing to heal you if you'll do things My way."
Once I started taking responsibility for my present
actions and stopped blaming them on my past, God was able to begin
healing me. God wants us to be honest with ourselves and
take responsibility for our actions. When He shows us something we have
done wrong, He wants us to repent, receive His forgiveness, and go on.
Once we confess our sin, God is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse
us instantly and restore unto us the joy of His salvation.
Choose to Smile!
This is one of the best things we can do to lift our
spirits and improve our outlook on life. The Bible says, A happy
heart makes the face cheerful…,So one of the gifts God
gives us is the ability to enjoy our "lot," or position, in
life. Of course, our lot often changes as we go through life's different
seasons. Yet, through each one, God gives us the power, or ability, to
enjoy what we have, where we are. Whether it's a job, material
possessions, money, relationships, or ministry opportunities, whatever
God gives us, He also gives us the power to enjoy it.
Make the Choice
to Rejoice! and …he
who has a glad heart has a continual feast [regardless of
circumstances]. 2 When we frown, our shoulders tend
to
The bottom line is if you're going to
experience the joy of the Lord, you must choose to be joyful. On
slump down, our head drops, and heaviness
seems to hang over us like a black cloud. But when we smile, we usually
hold our head up, have good, straight posture, and feel more relaxed.
Try it for yourself right now. Go ahead and frown for a couple of
minutes. How do you feel? Now try smiling. I'm sure you can see the
difference.
Here's an interesting story to illustrate the
importance of smiling. In the early 1990s, the well-known hotel chain,
Holiday Inn, was looking for 500 people to fill positions for a new
facility. Hotel managers interviewed 5,000 applicants, and those who
smiled less than four times during the interview were disqualified. This
criteria applied to all positions.3 I believe this shows that Holiday
Inn executives have learned the power of having employees that smile and
that there is a direct link between a smiling staff and running a highly
successful business.
purpose, regardless of your circumstances
or the way you feel, you must make a daily, and sometimes hourly,
decision to smile and trust that God has everything under control. If
you have to clean your house, make up your mind to enjoy it. If you have
to go to the grocery store, make up your mind to enjoy it. Doing these
things with a bad attitude will only bring you down and get you upset.
So make up your mind to enjoy doing what you know you have to do anyway.
With your own mouth, say, "Lord, by your grace I'm going to enjoy
doing..." and then you fill in the blank. "Your Word says You
want us to enjoy our life and You give us the power to do it. So I thank
You for changing my thinking in this area. In Jesus' name, Amen!"
Personally, I believe smiling is the "switch" that turns on
the joy of the Lord in every believer. But just like the light switch in
a room must be flipped on in order for it to work, we must choose to
flip on, or put on, a smile in order for God's joy to flow through us.
Our face reflects what's going on inside of us. It will either help or
hurt our witness for the Lord. People can't see inside of our hearts,
but they can see our faces. That's why we need to develop the healthy
habit of smiling.
Receive God's Power to Enjoy What He Gives You.
It is God's desire that we enjoy our lives fully. In
John 10:10, Jesus said, The thief comes only in order to steal and
kill and destroy. I came that [you] may have and enjoy life, and have it
in abundance (to the full, till it overflows). Not only does God
desire for us to enjoy our lives, but He also gives us the power to do
it. Ecclesiastes 5:19 says, Also, every man to whom God has given
riches and possessions, and the power to enjoy them and to accept his
appointed lot and to rejoice in his toil-this is the gift of God [to
him].
1. See Psalm 139:23,24. 2. See Proverbs 15:13 NIV; 15:15
AMP. 3. Bits & Pieces, March 3, 1994, p 11, Illustrations on Joy, (www.sermonillustrations.com,
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Tips
for You and your Family
- Keep
God FIRST!
- Pray
Together!
- Respect
and honor each other!
- Encourage
each other to grow together!
- Read
the Bible together as much as possible!
- Be
swift to hear & slow to speak!
- Make
time to communicate with each other!
- Protect
and honor your marriage vows!
- Do
not let others come between your marriage!
- Have
a "Mission Statement" for your Marriage & Family!
- Thank
God everyday for your Mate & the Life you have together!
- Understand
that "love" is a choice, not a feeling! (You must
choose everyday to Love your mate)
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